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Saturday, November 29, 2008

PARTY GIRLS!






Party All The Time - Eddie Murphy




As my man Jay-Z says ... I love girls, girls, girls, girls!

I have always been a man who could appreciate a young lady for who she is. In my line of work I have to deal with the loud ones, i have to deal with the ones who feel like you owe them something, i have to deal with the ones that are just conniving and fake cunning ( i seen it before boo, that's nothing new), I have to deal with the ones who are actually nice people, but there is a certain type of woman that always seem to catch a dude! These women are as per Jay-Z's words ... "Model chicks that don't cook or clean, she can dress her ass off and her walk is mean! Only thing wrong with Ma is she always on the scene, got damn she fine put she Parties all the time"(Hence my Song)



I will admit, these women are the general weakness of many men, and I am no different. This is the chick you prob seen on TV, seen in a magazine, sexy lil momma, all ya dudes know her name or face, a bunch of them have her blackberry info, she has craazy wardrobe, a real mean shoe game, she knows all the major hitters (money spenders), always on someone VIP list. This is the chick that you really want, but don't know if you want to or can keep.

I am really new to this blogging community, and I don't have a plethora of followers yet, so this blog might fall on a few deaf eyes(yes i meant DEAF EYES)! So my question to the men is what is wrong with keeping these women, and what is better than having a chick that you know every man wants?

My question to the (party)women is what are ya'll looking for, and do you think that knowing everyone is a good or bad look, and do you really give a fuck??

18 Retort(s):

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

I'm only a party girl in the summer and holiday vacations...other than that, its work and school, and I don't have the time (I'm focused man).

Hence, I can't answer this question...I'm a little too stuck up for this post (tounge-in-cheek).

the HAITIANS said...

WE GO OUT TO SIMPLY HAVE FUN...THATS IT. WHETHER ITS A SLOW NITE AND ITS US, THE DJ AND THE PROMOTERS OR A CRAZZZY NITE, WE GO TO SUPPORT AND HAVE FUN. AND IN THE PROCESS, IF WE MEET PEOPLE THAT HAPPEN TO BE COOL THEN THATS COOL. IT MIGHT LAST JUST THAT NIGHT. WE'VE BEEN SO BLESS TO MEET PEOPLE THAT ARE COOL AND FUNNY AND THAT WE TRULY FUCK WITH...WE NEED THAT...LOL BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY...WE REALLY DONT GIVE A FUCK WHO WE MEET...IF YOU'RE COOL, WE FUCK WITH YA

**trucee writer** said...

nice blog!

but yeah, idk if im considered a party girl or not but i do go out and have fun. after a hard ass week of school and work...im ready to get fucked up and enjoy at least one night of partying.

knowing everyone? i hardly know everyone so idk about that question. the people i do know on the party scene...i kinda met by chance through my sister KP(a retired party girl lol)
I just like meeting people period and getting to know them. kinda hard to get to know these "party celebs" (i.e. promoters, djs, etc) bc they barely have a second to themselves but some are cool.

do i think its a bad thing to know them?? i think my answer is that i dont give a fuck lol. if they were people i knew from school or from work, it wuoldnt make a difference, they'd still have the same personalities (hopefully)

i mean sheesh, anyone is just naturally friendly to put up with ur ass! :-p

brooky f. baby. said...

good question. i dance, in atl. so everyone knows us and we know them, and we know athletes, industry folk, b-list celebrities, and so on. so when me and my homegirls(who dance too)go out we are usually always with these different people who take us out in groups and party it up. we dont really give a fuck if people think we r sleeping with him, or that guy, or this guy-because we know what it is-just people with money wanting to go out with a bunch of their friends..(friends being us). so in our industry its a lifestyle of partying, so we always deal with judgement and we never give a fuck.

André C. Coley said...

I been partying with you guys since the days of Mars 2112 with my peoples Give and Go. And then when you guys took over Strata, I was there too. I can take it back to 1995 promoting parties and events, with Black Silk and Trilogy Entertainment. I'm now in Miami, but even in this mecca of partying, nothing has changed. Women are still about guestlists, bottles poppin and ballers spending.

I agree with my girl Lexi, when she referenced the "industry chic" and the "club chic", but in this day and age, those lines are now blurred. Lexi is a go getter and I met her as such and she's definitely a different breed. But there are many girls out there with the same passion and drive as Lexi that are straight up club rats. Club chics today are poppin bottles too and getting guap too. However the problem with most club chics, is they ain't checking for nobody that ain't spending on them or blinging outright or dropping "g's" at the bar. Industry chics on the other hand are all about their business and rarely get caught up in conversation with regular clientele, but they're doing the same things in regards of checking for dudes. So neither is better than the other to me.

The important thing to remember when dealing with any chic you meet in the club is to recognize who you dealing with and spit game appropriate to the individual.

Pana said...

IDK if a man really wants to "wife " up a party girl. I'm no party girl but it seems that is what some men what...On the other hand some men (non-american)has said to me that's is fine hanging out partying, and even fucking but not wifey. who knows. Great blog post!!!

Vegas International said...

BCU - You're not a party girl if you can say "i jst dont have the time" Party Girls ALWAYS find time to party!

Vegas International said...

TheHaitians - Well how lucky are those ppl who yall fuck with! Yall sound like faithful patrons rather than party girls!

Vegas International said...

Trucee - If you say you hardly know anyone, its kinda difficult to be a party girl. Party girls are pretty well known!

Vegas International said...

Brooky - Well your situation is a little different! You work in the industry so people do know you. Im not sure if i can call an employee a party girl, she is gettin paid to come into the party, but ill get back to you on that one.

Vegas International said...

Cooley - very good point.
"remember who you are dealing with, and approach them appropriately"

Vegas International said...

Pana - So you think more American men are willing to wife a "party girl" but non Americans are more reluctant to do so?? hmm, very interesting, ill examine that one and get back to you.

the HAITIANS said...

LOL...THATS RIGHT VI....WE ARE FAITHFUL PATRONS!! WE'RE ALL FOR THE SUPPORT

the HAITIANS said...

AND TO COMMENT ON WHAT PANA SAID.....WHATS WRONG WIFE-ING UP A PARTY GIRL? (GIRLS THINK THE SAME WAY) AS LONG ITS THE RIGHT GIRL FOR DUDE I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG......ITS NO DIFFERENT THEN MEETING THEM AT THE GROCERY STORE, CORNER STORE, MALL, PASSING BY IN THE STREETS...ETC. IS SOMEONE YOU MEET AT A PARTY NOT GOOD ENOUGH THEN MEETING SOMEONE AT WORK?

André C. Coley said...

To respond to "the HAITIANS" comment...

I think the stigma is not who you meet, but where you meet that person. To me, it really doesn't matter where I meet someone, but I think generally people [men and women] are preoccupied with labels.

Whether you meet a girl in church, school, work or the grocery store, they all end up at the club sometime. I met a lot of nice women in the club that are great friends to this day. Moral of the story, stop placing labels on people before you get to know them.

Vegas, this one is fun blog...lol. Continue my dude. Let's GO!!!

Peggy M. said...

LOL @ a bunch of them have her BB info...

I don't see anything wrong in being with a Party Girl ... it all depends on her motives, right? I mean, some of us have good intentions. Like The Girls said, as long as he feels she is right for him and her life doesn't revolve around the club scene ... Why Not? Besides, I think it's fun when you got a girl a lot of men admire. You know she's yours so long as she's honest, what's the problem? Leave a little to their imagination.

To answer your question though:

I know this sounds cliché, but I'm just looking for a good time when I go to parties. Maybe, back when I wasn't involved, I'd be looking for a good conversation from a guy(s) that I might've been interested in and possibly other things, but now I just wanna have a good time, laugh, drink, dance and see my friends.

I think knowing too many people can work for or against you ... a gift and curse, pretty much. Sometimes I appreciate the amount of people I know in nightlife ... and sometime's I can't stand it.

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CXXVII said...

I will party as frequently as I like...I don't care how a man views how I spend my free time.

Trust 95% of dudes will NOT curve their habits to be with you...so if it's a problem for you..then oh well...

I don't meet guys in the club (VERY RARE), I don't promoters...and I don't dance with people I don't know, so for me it's a different story.

I take a break from the scene when I start seeing the same bitches in the same outfits...