DEFINE A DATE???

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DATE AND GOING OR WENT OUT???

This was a question that i posed to my twitches (@MrVegasNYC) my Facebitches (Senor Vegas) and my BBM (not giving you my pin)

There were different responses to the question. Some say there is no difference b/t Dating and Going out, some say there is a slight difference, and others say there is a significant difference.

This Blog is to ask you what is your definition of a date and what is your definition of gone out. I will share my definition with you. Be clear, i have not blogged in a while, but my words are still as crass and as blunt as ever, so read with an open or closed mind. IDGAF ... just know i speak the Truth, as i see it.

MY DISTINCTION: 'Going out' is a formality women take to not fuck you for free ... I dnt consider that 'dating' - Dating is something you do to build something with someone you like for more than fuckin. Women Go Out w/ niggas they have no intention of fucking, niggas dont go out w/ chicks they dont want to fuck. However, both sexes date people to get to know them with hopes they will like them and it will lead to something else, not necessarily or specifically SEX.

That is MY take .. What is Yours?

SEX IS RELATIONS - NOT RELATIONSHIPS

As most of you know from my previous blogs and my twitter, I'm pretty straight forward, and I like to ask questions that make people think. So today my question is: Why are you women acting like you don't know men want to fuck first, and get to know you second?

We're all grown here correct?? Good, because I'm looking for grown folk conversations.

I don't mind being cool with you, but I don't want to jeopardize my willingness to have sex with you just by talking to you too much. Sex is relations, not a relationship. "Just because we had sex doesn't make us friends" -@HarryPowda. Honestly, if I decide I don't want to fuck anymore, chances are, we wont be that cool any damn way. It's not a matter of fucking everybody, it's a matter of knowing and acknowledging why we're here.

Women know men really just want to to fuck, STOP IT!! Yes, you do! If you want to accept it or not that is your business, but you damn well know that is the situation. Any relationship can get past fucking and into something else, but it starts with fucking. Why are you all so uptight about that?? If I dont want to fuck you, how the hell can you expect me to want to hang out with you and even be with you long term? WTDT@??

OHHHHHHH SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT!!!!!!

Ever fuck someone you know you shouldn't?

(You get that naughty rush!!! That voyeuristic feeling
ohhhhh man, i shouldn't be doing this!!, but this shyt
is definitely about to go down)


Then fuck someone you said you wouldn't?

(This is the person you always felt could never get
it from you, because of whatever reason, but ONE
DAY ... the Moon was right and the situation couldn't
be denied, not so much of a rush, but a HEEEEEEEEERE WE GO!!)



Then fuck someone you thought you couldn't?

(This is the ultimate SUPERMAN / SUPERWOMAN RUSH .... I know im sexy, but
i never thought this person wanted to fuck me. I
thought we were just friends, I thought you were
celibate, I thought you didn't fuck short dark skin
ppl - Its a RUSH b/c i just didn't think we
were fucking tonight ... POW!!!!!!)



What was your weekend like???

AINT NO PUSSY LIKE NEW PUSSY .....

BUT .....
The Best Sex is LOVE SEX (Allegedly)


Maybe I'm a dysfunctional person, maybe I have no respect for the other sex, maybe I don't respect myself, or maybe, just maybe I'm a self aware human being that understands that the concept of life long monogamy is not a natural choice, its a trained decision.

I don't advocate cheating, I don't advocate lies, and I'm not here to argue the stupid shyt that happens in relationships. However, I am here to speak for those people who think there is more to life than a singular, repetitive and mundane relationship. I'm here to speak for people who accept the fact that you can care for someone emotionally and mentally, but still want someone else physically. I believe that urge for someone or something else is more natural than the concept of monogamy. They say humans are not "animals" so we should not try to act like them. OK, but I have heard humans are the only mammals that have sex for pleasure; and if this is for pleasure, why should I not be pleased because someone else finds my behavior appalling? FOH!!

If you have come to the place in your life that you feel you can be with and will only want one person ever again, CONGRATS!!! I envy you for your beliefs and your idealism but most of you are naive, and i don't envy that. Between the ages of 15-35 if you feel like you have found the only person you're ever going to want to be with again I think that idea is delusional, really optimistic or really lucky, and if you're that lucky you should be playing lotto whenever you want and WIN. I'm currently about to be 30 and out of the hundreds of relationships that I have seen start since I was 15, I couldn't tell you ONE that I know has succeeded. So, WHY am I the ASSHOLE? Why are you guys not delusional? I'm tired of hearing "My Grand Parents are still together" Congrats to your Grand Parents, this is a different time and a different era, give me someone else other than Grandparents and MAYBE Parents.

Life offers something different to you every five years; for you to think you're relationship won't change (maybe for the better) and or deteriorate I am ASTONISHED!! What is it about you or your partner that is sooo fucking special that you think you're the exception to the obvious norm? I mean being optimistic is totally different from being delusional. I'm all for Optimism, but i cant really get with delusion? I'm attracted to totally different people at 30 than i was at 25. I was attracted to different people at 25 than i was at 20. What makes you think your taste won't change in your 5 years and your partner won't change as well. Wanting someone else is a natural human feeling and emotion. However, I think that the overwhelmingly stronger emotion is that of losing someone. People are scared to be honest, people are scared to lose someone they like. This fear is often the downfall of many relationships because they will lie, cheat and deceive to hold one to what they want. If people could just realize that often the mental and emotional part of a relationship can easily grow stronger over time, but physical part of the relationship usually deteriorates over time. Once again, a mental and emotional relationship is very different from a physical one, STOP trying to make them mutually inclusive, they are very mutually exclusive.

So i said all that to say this .... AIN'T NO PUSSY LIKE NEW PUSSY ....
But I understand how knowing someones pussy can make the experience a bit more emotionally gratifying, but that doesn't always its more EXCITING!!!
But I'm young enough to have my cake and eat it too, Ill work it off!!

#PUSSYFAX

STOP TRYING TO MAKE YOUR OLD PUSSY LOOK NEW --

I GOT THE #PUSSYFAX!!!

So i really wasnt going to post many new blogs because i wanted to blog above this to be the 1st thing ppl see when they visit my page, but im gong to pre date this post b/c i was inspired by my girl @BrookandtheCity on twitter (http://www.absolutebrook.com/) and i had to post this shyt!!

Anyway, #PUSSYFAX for those of you who cant figure it out is Car Fax for the Pussy. I know a lot of you women would really approach your sales pitch and price you place on your pussy much differently if #PUSSYFAX was available to those who are interested.

#PUSSYFAX forces bitches to stop claiming low mileage on their pussy when they know they have been picking up hitchhikers from Coast to Coast or been taking that i95 route from the south to the north like they moving guns and drugs. If you're pussy isworn out and ran down its cool, just own it, dont front. I understand you got new tires, maybe even got a fresh paint job, but unlike a car, you cant just get a new Twat. The one you got you are stuck with, so stop trying false advertising your 75k Twatage (twat mileage) as 12k.

Now im not judging you if you have high twatage on your pussy or if its a lil beat up a lil bit, to each its own. Everyone doesnt like to keep the pussy in the garage and that is totally cool! Its your pussy and only you can decide how often to take it out for a rid and "I" will never judge you for that. Some people like hoopties, its what they can afford, it might hold sentimental value, it fits their image, WHATEVER!! But, no one wants to pay Aston Martin prices for a hoop ride!! Just be honest with your merchandise and stop trying to bamboozle people.

#PUSSYFAX is something that would save a lot of you impulse buying ass niggas alot of heartache, money, and confusion. Some of you just love jumping into anything that looks new and shiny. Yall got to be careful, after a few weeks you are gonna wonder why the pussy is always in the shop. If you had #PUSSYFAX you would know this bitch is too damn fast with the pussy and dont know how to pump her brakes, so she always in need of some work b/c that shyt is worn the fuck out.

#PussyFax will help niggas realize that when the chick says she has only had "one owner" all she really means is that one person owned it but has been renting the pussy out on a WEEKLY basis!!!

If yall were honest sellers, we woulndt need #PussyFax, big shout to the ladies with high and low Twatage but keep it 100!!

STOP FRONTING, YOU GAVE HIM THE PUSSY !!!! HE JUST DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT!!

Just because it wasnt what you thought it was going to be or he didnt size up to what you imagined, you still spread it and gave that nigga the pussy. You cant discount him b/c he didnt beat it up, you have to count it because you are the one that gave it up!!

I always hated how women discount niggas they didnt like the sexs with b/c they had little dicks, or only fucked them for like 95 seconds. If someone asks how many ppl you have slept with, that does not mean how many mind blowing sexual experiences have you had, it simply means, now many niggas did you give you pussy to??

I dont think women should be able to get off the hook for making bad pussy decisions. However, It seems like thats what a lot of yall do. Only claiming about 75% of the niggas that fucked you. If you decided to let bend over or lay on you back and welcome that wack nigga into you pussy, you should not only count it ... but be penalized for making poor pussy decisions! He fucked you, so stop fronting ... just because you wanted this ....



But instead it turned out like this ....



IT DOESNT MATTER ... YOU STILL GAVE HIM THIS ...

THE REPUBLICAN SWITCH!!!

YOUR BOO/WIFEY/SHORTY WILL FLIP THAT REPBULICAN SWITCH .....

Yall dudes better be careful out there

dont ever listen to shyt your woman gotta say, b/c the fhuked up part is they actually mean it when they say it, so its really not their fault. However, fellas, when you have a shorty, a boo, a wifey please make sure you know that them bytches are REPUBLICANS!!!! Cuz when it gets down to it, 8/10 are gonna be PRO CHOICE ... if that thing happens ...

How many times have you heard, i dont want a relationship and you end up in one, I dont want a baby and you end up with one. Whenever they get the positive blood or EPT test, everything they said in the past goes out the fuckin window. I have seen it happen so many times to soooo many of my niggas.

They say they dont want one, they want to live their life, they are not ready, blah blah blah ..... but then when it happens they remember the last one they had back in their teen years, they start to think, well we are happy together why cant this work, they say I feel so connected.
ITS PRO LIFE WHEN YOU GOT A BOO NIGGA -
AN OUNCE OF PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN A POUND OF CURE!!!

DONT GET IT FHUKED UP - YOUR SHORTY IS REPUBLICAN - PRO LIFE!!!
BE CAREFUL OUT THERE MY DUDES......

I DONT MASTURBATE ....

Soooooo --- i saw this on Twitter yesturday and had the bbm open mouth face like :O

So i hit her with the LOL, and was like you a daaaamn liar! You're joking right???

She was like .. NO NIGGA .. im for real!! I again had that BBM FACE :O

I have not heard a woman say something like that since maybe my high school years, So this got me thinking 2 things.

1. Is it true that all i talk to are freaky ass women? lol

2. Is masturbating like drugs and alcohol. If you didnt do it growing up, then its just not that serious??

YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE!

WOMEN ACTING LIKE "MEN"

I CAME ACROSS A CONVERSATION TODAY, AND IT GOT ME THINKING IT MIGHT BE A GOOD BLOG TOPIC ...

DO YOU THINK FEMALES FUCK A DUDE ONCE FOR THE SAME REASON DUDES FUCK A CHICK ONCE?

I know dudes that have no other interest in anything other than penetrating that crease, and once he has done that, then they could care less about seeing or speaking or even fuckin with you again.

However, I know a number of females who have some and others who have a few one time beats. Now, im not talkin about one night stands or out of town rendezvous. Im talkin about a dude you will see again, you might work with, lives in ya building. I mean you thought money was sexy, and you wanted it, then you got it, and then _______

NOW, obviously i know the initial answer of the dick was wasnt good. Yea Yea Yea Yea ... i get that, but I have heard them say homie's dick wasnt "bad" and besides, i know many of those same chicks who will keep fucking with other niggas and stay talking about how he doesnt give good dick. Sooo, thats not gonna be relevant for this convo.

What do you think is the reason for the woman's one and done??

Bring Some Weed I got a story to tell (Taboo:Volume One)

Due to some recent conversations i have had with friends, associates, and just some nasty ass people i know, it has come to my attention that we are a culture of NASTY FUCKERS!!

When i say nasty i dont mean "bum on the street dirty" or "You Disgust me dirty" ... i mean Brit Spears / Christina Aguilera dirty / Old School Madonna ..

We seem to live for Taboo Behavior. If its not looked down upon by society, then the MANY of us dont even want to be bothered with it. We seem to be Taboo / Adrenalin Junkies that live on the edge, do craazy things, and live with secrets that you are just dying to share with someone. If we cant get in trouble for doing it, we dont really want to do it anymore. We are governed by our own will for naughty behavior... GOT TO LOVE IT!

NONE OF THESE THINGS I CONDEMN, CONDONE, or DENY!!
THIS IS JUST MY LIST OF THINGS I HAVE HEARD PEOPLE DO AND SAY THAT I FIND TO BE FREAKIN HILLARIOUS!!!!

FELLAS - How many times have you tried to get at a girl and when she tells you she is Married / Engaged / Involved / Seeing someone it turns you on even more..

LADIES - You all can not be "Bi Sexual." As main stream as you might feel the Bi Sexual ladies are, it is still very much of an Adrenalin thing for some ladies. Just the idea and the though of being w/ another women turns them on b/c they think "what would people think" or "that is soo naughty, i shouldnt be doin this" i have heard this from them, not making this stuff up..

FELLAS - When you figure out she wants to give you the vertical moistness, why is the 1st thing that goes through your mind... "Hmm, i wonder how freaky she is, then you start to think about all kinds of reckless places to have sex just to keep shyt interesting!!

LADIES - You have become the "NEW BREED OF CHEATERS" .. It seems like if a woman does not have a Man & a Jump off she is going to be bored in life. The number of women who get their rush from behaving badly w/ someone who is not the person they should be with is astonishingly high. Ladies you think would never, and could never, and are just such "good girls" are some of the nastiest, freakiest, most surprising ones.. TRUST!!!

EVERYONE -- WHY DOES EVERYONE HAVE TO HAVE A HUSTLE!! I know NYC is an expensive place to live, but there is no reason for no one to have a job & everyone has money...

LADIES -- Why is it that the nice guy or the guy on Wall St. or the guy in the cubicle next to you will never get a chance with most of you ladies (pre 38yrs old). Why is it that your dude has to have "edge" why must he seem like he will smack a nigga in his face or put holes in someone for you to get wet??

LADIES-- Why cant you just play with your toys on your own time..Why is the single largest party demographic is "SEX TOY PARTIES" .. This secret society of freaky
(_!_) women seem to be running the streets recruiting better than College Coaches! lol. They have Secret handshakes and coded emails, this makes it seem like yall running drugs across the border. lol

FELLAS -- Why must everyone carry a gun? If you get caught w/ one that is waaaaay too much time, and if you have one you will use one. Once you use a gun in any regular crime it becomes a MAJOR situation

EVERYONE -- WHY IS EVERYONE FUCKING IN THE CLUB / DRESSING ROOMS / CLASSROOMS / AND ON THE SIDE OF THE STREET?? YALL JUST WANT TO GET CAUGHT??

Stop wit the Pity Pussy!!

If I hear another story about why did I, or I cant believe I did, or I was so disappointed that's definitely not what I signed up for, lol

I don't know how many times I have to tell my homegirls - a real nigga will throw ya clothes out the window if you act right, so if you want to play like your gangsta, then act accordingly!!

Ya'll can fhuk who you want, but who you fhuk and why you fhuk them is a very important component used to separate the that guy from THAT DUDE & more importantly in what regard you are looked upon!!!

C'moooon, The rules state you have to earn it on your merit and not on your shortcomings!! What part of the game is that???

This BLOG obviously isn't for everyone!! Some of you still live in a world where this behavior is unrelatable, but to those who know what I'm talking about .... Please get your shyt together!! I'm trying to help you!

SLUT: WHO IS SHE? GENDER WARS VOLUME II

What makes a chick a "slut" (now, i dont like that word, nor any other word like it b/c i dont judge women for what they do, b/c its just one of those double standard things, besides why would i want to discourage you.. lol )

Anyway, I was talking to one of my boys and he feels like you can fuck who you want to fuck. If you like ball players you like ball players, if you like promoters you like promoters, if you like Rappers you like Rappers, If you like tall dudes you like tall dudes, BUT If after he beat, and then he tells you to beat his other two niggas, then that could justify you as a "slut"... You cant fuck the 8 niggas to get to the guy you want and still say you dnt "GET IT IN".. Now once again.. if thats what you do, that does not make you a bad person, it just is what it is....Do you

I have a different outlook on it. I just think you need to have a certain degree of separation w/ the people you are fucking.. If you fucked me, and fucked all of my friends either after or before me thats not hot... Just about everyone in NY(and outside) double dips, you are going to know someone who the other person has sex w/ that is inevitable.. but i dont want all the dudes i know to "know you" too... thats me..

I dont ask and i dont care who you fucked because..

1. Women are gonna lie anyway, and

2. If i dont know the dude, i dont care...

So, what makes a woman a slut... Please refrain for personal jabs.. this is not meant to be a forum for anyone to vent about some chick or some nigga, i dont give a fuck about your personal life, i just want you to talk about the subject.. Thank You...

LESBIANS DO IT BETTER?? REALLY??

*** IM NOT HERE TO JUDGE ANYONE'S SEXUAL PREFERENCE, OR THROW STONES, IM JUST QUESTIONING SOME OF THE THINGS I HAVE HEARD FROM SOME WOMEN ***

Ok Ok Ok ...
This blog was not an original idea, but it was an original thought. So i have to credit to BCU'S BLOG, but mine is a little different (Lesbians definitely dont hit on me, lol)

I dont know how many people can answer this for me, and i dont know how many replies i will even get from this hopefully yall will keep if funky or at the worst respond anonymously!

So my question is, WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FUCKIN WITH A MAN AND FUCKIN WITH A WOMAN (LET'S SAY an AG to be specific)

So if you dont know what AG stands for, you cant answer this question anyway. Now, im not opposed to Lebsians or Bi Sexuals, I just sometimes wonder what the big difference is between AG's and Dudes. They look like dudes, they dress like dudes, they act like dudes, they even fuck like dudes (from what my girls tell me), so really what is the big difference?

They Give you strap -- Niggas give you dick
They are hella possessive -- Niggas can be possesive
They look like niggas -- Niggas look like niggas
They cheat like niggas -- niggas cheat like niggas
They say they know your needs -- a nigga can learn what you need
They eat good pussy -- niggas eat good pussy

I REALLY DONT GET IT! Someone Pls Explain (if you can)

GENDER WARS VOLUME ONE (WHO HAS MORE SEX?)

WHO HAS MORE SEX?
WOMEN....


OR MEN...


.... So (Gender Wars) are a group of on going conversations that i have had with a few of my (male and female)friends and ofcourse there is always a difference in opinion, lol.


So as i was talking w/ homeboy and business partner and we ran across a very very interesting topic. He seems to believe that women Fuck more than men.. hmmmm

Now, i know that women have more opportunities, but i had TWO reasons to believe that men actually have more sex:

1. I have always been around a certain caliber of men since i was a young man. I have been surrounded with, athletes, get money niggaz, and just cool niggaz that never had problem gettin box. I mean i had a Male High School friends that by senior year had already had sex with 60 / 70 chicks (yes thats craazy, but it is what it is..)

2. I have never really known many chicks that get it in as much as my dudes, but i know chicks who definitely do them. The majority of women i know dont have problems w/ having sex, they just "SEEM" to not do it as much as the niggaz i know...

NOW -- The thing my boy explained to me is that, i have lived and have been exposed to an atypical lifestyle and group of friends... There seems to be a lot of niggas who "stay home and play video games" and really dont get pussy like that... Thats baffling to me, and came as a shock, but when i put it together and looked around at my whole life, it kind of made a little bit of sense... I just never thought it was that hard, and when i actually thought about it I saw what he was seeing... Its not soo hard for (some)dudes, but it is down right easy for (a high majority of) women


SO DO WOMEN REALLY HAVE MORE SEX THAN MEN?? I KNOW YALL LADIES GET IT IN.. DONT EVEN TRY TO FRONT

So Please Chime in and give me your opinions on it.. I hope you women can give us some real insights..please no generic bullshyt.... Just keep it funky

HE FUCKED HER TOOO??

There are two different kinds of men out there..

Some guys fuck for numbers and others fuck for the experience.

I myself have sex for the experience of something or someone exciting. However, I know a bunch of people out there who just fuck to chase a number. I understand that at a young age when you are first introduced to sex you try to do as much as you can! However, I think at a certain age you should stop chasing pussy. I never said stop getting pussy, but damn, stop chasing it!

I know dudes who easily have sex with 80+ women every single year. I think it takes a lot of effort or too much slumming to do that. I understand that some people of a celebrity status just fall into pussy, you walk outside and just say I want her too. Whatever, they are not chasing it, it's just coming to them. But if you are just some dude trying to make a name for yourself and fucking 80+ women a year -- I personally feel like you are not fucking due to the convenience, you are fucking as a result of your plotting and chasing. I know I'm a fly nigga, but for me to fuck 80 women a year is going to require waaaay too much effort that I'm sooo not willing to put in, and I'm not fuckin' a bucket just b/c she wants to give me pussy either. I have an image to uphold!! I'm definitely not buying the pussy off you either! It aint trickin if you don't do it!! If you have not figured out how to get pussy without buying it or slumming it, then I dont know what to tell you! I dont chase Liquor or bitches ... ONLY my money!

IM TIRED OF ALL THESE WHINING ASS BABY MAMA'S

Seriously ...

Seriously ...

STFU!!

{DISCLAIMER: I'm excluding women who got divorced, and excluding women who lost their husbands through tragedy (DOES NOT INCLUDE JAIL)}


Who are you ladies complaining to or complaining about?? Why are you blaming the bum ass nigga for being a bum ass nigga. If you didn't want a dead beat to be your baby's father why did you have a baby for him? Everyone is Independent, strong, and can do it on their own until they have the damn baby; Then its the niggas fault for not being there!! How about having a baby with someone....

1) You Really Know

2) That can & will actually be around.

3) WANTS TO HAVE A BABY WITH YOU!!!!! (GENIUS)

There are tons of guys out there that are fun to be around and even great to have sex with, but not a whole bunch of them are going to be good or capable Dad's. I cant believe that some of yall really thing that having a nigga's baby is going to keep him around! How old are you? What decade are we in?? Ya'll have babies with these fools and then your lucky if he sees you or your kid 4 times before the baby is 5!

STOP COMPLAINING .... its your fault for having a baby with a bum ass nigga! Its your fault for trying to keep a nigga by having his baby, its your fault for not managing your life effectively! Yes he is a bum nigga, and he will get whats coming to him b/c Karma is a bitch, but your also the silly one for having his kid. So take the hand your dealt yourself, live with it, and make the best out of a less than optimal situation!