98% GOOD NIGGA!

This is a conversation that has been going on b/t girlfriends and men and women in relationships for CENTURIES. The chances of you finding the perfect person is impossible, because everyone is different and likes different things. The best thing i tell people to hope for is to find the person who is Perfect for you, or the person that comes the closest.

There is noooo such thing as the perfect dude, everyone has faults everyone has weaknesses, and everyone messes up. My question is, why do are women so willing to give up that "98%" good nigga to turn around and end up with a "62%" good nigga. I never really understood what certain people hold in such high regard.

What are the 3 basic faults women know about dudes?
1. They like to fuck other women. (what a shocker)
2. They like to be the "big man", "bread winner", "wear the pants"
3. They carry emotional baggage from old relationships (baby momma drama, heartbroken as a kid, etc. etc.
4. They LIE like like the motherfuckin rug.

My problem is, we are all grown yet we like to sit back and believe in fairy tales like we are kids. Im not saying you should not want the best for yourself, now am i saying you should compromise yourself, im saying you should not throw something or someone away because they messed up, just to bite ya nose off to spite your face. Then end up with something worst and then you never get that good thing back again.

If he does all the things your man should do for you like, not Chris Brown your ass, Diddy's The kids (takes care of his and yours like its his), does not put you in harms way, and provides a safe enviorment for you and your kids, is pretty damn honest with you, but requires you to kinda humble yourself a bit and just be his lady, why is it that some of you want to fight him on this. Why is it that you are so hell bent on "equality" and having your voice heard, but end up fucking with a dude who gives you that voice, but you have no equality in the rest of your relationship. You were not screaming equality when you was taking care of your kids. Whats so hard about STFU!

Simularly, this dude is almost perfect in every way, but he cheats on you. I know .. I know .. I know .. OHHH MY GOSH!! He cheated. Really? So now what?? Break up with him and find someone who won't cheat on you? Well you will be searching for that person for a really long time, or that dude's head is so far up under your skirt, he can tell you when your "periodical" is coming. If you are just going to stay with someone who doesnt cheat on you, you will be in a bunch of 6month - 36 month relationships, or after a while, you will just stop looking or caring. Should have stopped looking while you had the good nigga. Now you stuck with the fat nigga who borrows money from you all the time and doesnt have much going on but a bunch of talk and empty promises.

Now, im not saying that there are not guys out there that dont cheat, and im not saying that there are not guys out there that will let you be the woman you want to be. My point is know what it is that you want from your relationships, and allow their to be room for error and improvement. Its always GREAT in the beginning, but can it be GOOD 20 yrs from now is the real question. Relationships go from GREAT to I HATE YOU, in 2-6 months. Talk to me after 15 - 25 yrs.

ALL IM SAYING IS ...
Dont throw away a Zack Posen dress b/c someone had it on before you, or there is a default in it, take it to a tailor to get it fixed. It doesnt make sense to throw that away just to go throw on a Isaac Mizrahi Target dress. Thats just backwards to me. A Good Dress is a good dress, and that will prob last longer than that short term Target shyt!

Fix the Posen dress and deal with the fact that its a hot dress and someone else would and prob has had it before. Geeesh!!!

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CHEAT???

I was talking to my homegirl the other day and she is confident that she knows when her man is cheating, and is sure she could call him out on it. I know one of her Ex's and she has never called him out before and he was a DDMF (Dirty Dick Motherfucka), but ill let her tell it.

Fortunate for her, she has a D.I.L.A.N (Dangerously In Love Ass Nigga)now, so i guess she feels like she knows when he does something b/c she feels she can read him!! Whateva Homie!!

Anyway, i know some dudes who get caught all the time, and i know some dudes who never seem to ever get caught .... now my question is this ....


Do you think you are more likely to get caught cheating if you are fhuckin a bunch of Random chicks or having ONE affair? I guess ladies could answer this question also, b/c everyone knows yall some cheating motherfhukas as well!

GENDER WARS VOLUME III: BIG MOUTH!

They Say Women "Gossip" and Dudes "Brag"

You know what I say, Chicks have four lips, and thats why they can never shut the fuck up w/ their shyt!!!

So, i was talking to my dude as usual and he said that he thinks that chicks never shut the fhuk up! However, when i speak to some (if not most) of my women they always say they feel like men always gotta talk to their boys (like yall asses dont always to your girls)!

When it comes to your business and their (opposite sex) business, who really talks the most??

Here is my take on it:

I think bytches talk more! Now, when i say bytches i dont mean only women! Some dudes can be bytches too, but yes i do think its more of a woman thing! Yes, there are a bunch of bytch niggas out there, but i think females definitely run their mouths more.

Tell me if im Wrong ... It happened once before, I guess it could happen twice. lol

SLUT: WHO IS SHE? GENDER WARS VOLUME II

What makes a chick a "slut" (now, i dont like that word, nor any other word like it b/c i dont judge women for what they do, b/c its just one of those double standard things, besides why would i want to discourage you.. lol )

Anyway, I was talking to one of my boys and he feels like you can fuck who you want to fuck. If you like ball players you like ball players, if you like promoters you like promoters, if you like Rappers you like Rappers, If you like tall dudes you like tall dudes, BUT If after he beat, and then he tells you to beat his other two niggas, then that could justify you as a "slut"... You cant fuck the 8 niggas to get to the guy you want and still say you dnt "GET IT IN".. Now once again.. if thats what you do, that does not make you a bad person, it just is what it is....Do you

I have a different outlook on it. I just think you need to have a certain degree of separation w/ the people you are fucking.. If you fucked me, and fucked all of my friends either after or before me thats not hot... Just about everyone in NY(and outside) double dips, you are going to know someone who the other person has sex w/ that is inevitable.. but i dont want all the dudes i know to "know you" too... thats me..

I dont ask and i dont care who you fucked because..

1. Women are gonna lie anyway, and

2. If i dont know the dude, i dont care...

So, what makes a woman a slut... Please refrain for personal jabs.. this is not meant to be a forum for anyone to vent about some chick or some nigga, i dont give a fuck about your personal life, i just want you to talk about the subject.. Thank You...

GENDER WARS VOLUME ONE (WHO HAS MORE SEX?)

WHO HAS MORE SEX?
WOMEN....


OR MEN...


.... So (Gender Wars) are a group of on going conversations that i have had with a few of my (male and female)friends and ofcourse there is always a difference in opinion, lol.


So as i was talking w/ homeboy and business partner and we ran across a very very interesting topic. He seems to believe that women Fuck more than men.. hmmmm

Now, i know that women have more opportunities, but i had TWO reasons to believe that men actually have more sex:

1. I have always been around a certain caliber of men since i was a young man. I have been surrounded with, athletes, get money niggaz, and just cool niggaz that never had problem gettin box. I mean i had a Male High School friends that by senior year had already had sex with 60 / 70 chicks (yes thats craazy, but it is what it is..)

2. I have never really known many chicks that get it in as much as my dudes, but i know chicks who definitely do them. The majority of women i know dont have problems w/ having sex, they just "SEEM" to not do it as much as the niggaz i know...

NOW -- The thing my boy explained to me is that, i have lived and have been exposed to an atypical lifestyle and group of friends... There seems to be a lot of niggas who "stay home and play video games" and really dont get pussy like that... Thats baffling to me, and came as a shock, but when i put it together and looked around at my whole life, it kind of made a little bit of sense... I just never thought it was that hard, and when i actually thought about it I saw what he was seeing... Its not soo hard for (some)dudes, but it is down right easy for (a high majority of) women


SO DO WOMEN REALLY HAVE MORE SEX THAN MEN?? I KNOW YALL LADIES GET IT IN.. DONT EVEN TRY TO FRONT

So Please Chime in and give me your opinions on it.. I hope you women can give us some real insights..please no generic bullshyt.... Just keep it funky