Seriously ...
Seriously ...
STFU!!
{DISCLAIMER: I'm excluding women who got divorced, and excluding women who lost their husbands through tragedy (DOES NOT INCLUDE JAIL)}
Who are you ladies complaining to or complaining about?? Why are you blaming the bum ass nigga for being a bum ass nigga. If you didn't want a dead beat to be your baby's father why did you have a baby for him? Everyone is Independent, strong, and can do it on their own until they have the damn baby; Then its the niggas fault for not being there!! How about having a baby with someone....
1) You Really Know
2) That can & will actually be around.
3) WANTS TO HAVE A BABY WITH YOU!!!!! (GENIUS)
There are tons of guys out there that are fun to be around and even great to have sex with, but not a whole bunch of them are going to be good or capable Dad's. I cant believe that some of yall really thing that having a nigga's baby is going to keep him around! How old are you? What decade are we in?? Ya'll have babies with these fools and then your lucky if he sees you or your kid 4 times before the baby is 5!
STOP COMPLAINING .... its your fault for having a baby with a bum ass nigga! Its your fault for trying to keep a nigga by having his baby, its your fault for not managing your life effectively! Yes he is a bum nigga, and he will get whats coming to him b/c Karma is a bitch, but your also the silly one for having his kid. So take the hand your dealt yourself, live with it, and make the best out of a less than optimal situation!
