Seriously ...
Seriously ...
STFU!!
{DISCLAIMER: I'm excluding women who got divorced, and excluding women who lost their husbands through tragedy (DOES NOT INCLUDE JAIL)}
Who are you ladies complaining to or complaining about?? Why are you blaming the bum ass nigga for being a bum ass nigga. If you didn't want a dead beat to be your baby's father why did you have a baby for him? Everyone is Independent, strong, and can do it on their own until they have the damn baby; Then its the niggas fault for not being there!! How about having a baby with someone....
1) You Really Know
2) That can & will actually be around.
3) WANTS TO HAVE A BABY WITH YOU!!!!! (GENIUS)
There are tons of guys out there that are fun to be around and even great to have sex with, but not a whole bunch of them are going to be good or capable Dad's. I cant believe that some of yall really thing that having a nigga's baby is going to keep him around! How old are you? What decade are we in?? Ya'll have babies with these fools and then your lucky if he sees you or your kid 4 times before the baby is 5!
STOP COMPLAINING .... its your fault for having a baby with a bum ass nigga! Its your fault for trying to keep a nigga by having his baby, its your fault for not managing your life effectively! Yes he is a bum nigga, and he will get whats coming to him b/c Karma is a bitch, but your also the silly one for having his kid. So take the hand your dealt yourself, live with it, and make the best out of a less than optimal situation!
14 Retort(s):
You cannot be serious right now ... so women are psychic now??
If you were with someone for 8 years, and things were great ... then you have a baby and things become sour, you're supposed to know that dude is a jerk???
Come on ... you need a better argument... you're dissapointing me!
Yes, I'm a female with a kid...
Naaaa, actaully i dont! You are making my point.
If you are with someone for 8 years and dont see that they wont be a good father or wont be around i personally think that is a moronic statement!
You are supposed to know someone after 8 yrs. So if after 8 yrs you have a Kid, and he is not around, and then you tell me that "you didnt know he was gonna bail" "you thought he would be" "he said he wanted it" I think that is absurd statement!
I would really have to say you are lying to yourself! You hoped he would be around, you think he should be around (which he should) but a nigga dont change over night after 8 yrs. YOU KNEW!!! You just hoped it was going to be different with you! STOP LYING TO YOURSELVES!!!
I dont want to hurt anyones feeling out here (well i really dont care), but i am going to speak the truth as i see it!
If you are with a person for 8 motherfucking YEARS!! 8!!! and you dont know he is a bum ass nigga, i want you to tell me how that is possible! Im curious!! Im never opposed to learning something new
Vegas, I totally agree with you.....
I truly believe there should be a law out there for men. Some woman would have a man's child out of spite, thinking he will stay around or will take care of that child when she gives birth. Then after they're hopes and dreams are let down they want to take the situation to the court.
They will constantly blame it on a man. Question: Since when is a relationship a "One Way" street?
Yes, its a female speaking...
-Ebony J
the same way people have been married and 20 years later your husband is not who the fuck he was for all those years. its very possible. you never really know people. conme on u should know that
LOL @ your choice of photo.
Women who try to have kids with men in hopes that it will keep them around or make their already spoiled relationship fresh again are plain 'ole IGNORANT ( with emphasis on the word 'ignorant' - wish i knew how to use the HTML features on here cuz that word would've been bolded and italicized)
Anonymous 2 -
Yes marriages end over time, people fall in and out of love, times change things are different thats true. but thats not my argumetn.
{PS- If you are dealing with someone for years and they turn out to be the total antithesis of who you thought they were, chances are you are not complaining about them being a dead beat dad, you prob dont want anything to do with them. Having a failed marriage does no mean having a dead beat father!}
BACK TO THE SUBJECT ...
We are talkin about dead beat dads and complaining baby mothers. I have never once heard of a story of a dude who was always commited to a relationsip, always there for his shorty, always saying they want a baby with you, just dissapearing after you have the kid!
I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF IT!
The complaining baby mothers im talkin about are not divorced! Thats a differnt topic.
These are the females who are 16 - 28 complaining about why this nigga aint here, Its his baby, why he acting like that, why dont you be a man, i know you aint shyt nigga, i thought you were gonna be here for me and the kid, why dont you love me (im the mother of your child) BITCH STFU!!!
You cant and wont know everything about a person! But you know if a nigga wants to have kids with you, you know if you havin a baby to stay closer to him, YOU KNOW THOSE THINGS, but yall lie to yaselves too much! Open Your Eyes! STOP BEING COMPLAINING ASS BABY MAMAS!!
If you want to raise a child by yourself, im sure you can do a hell of a job if you so desire .. but dont blame the bum nigga for being a bum nigga, b/c you CHOSE that bum nigga and HOPED it would work out.
why you so mad at theM? you must got a complaining baby momma. leaves us baby mommas alone. wtf
1st - Its not about yall, Im just an angry person .. I get very annoyed and when i decide to speak about something, i always speak with pasion and conviction. Thats how i get my point across. I like to be right and do what i need to to make sure of i am.
2nd - Im not pickin on yall, yall are just the topic of the day, when i speak about bitch ass niggas next, ill have the same conviction. I throw everyone under the bus equally. Dont take it personal, but you should learn and listen to what i say. I DO SPEAK THE TRUTH!! Im the best thing that could have happened to your blog life, lol. I keeps it funky at all times!!
PS ...
DEFINITELY NO ONE'S BABY DADDY!
Whatever happen to the institution of marriage. Now yes i do admit sometimes shit happens but i'm all for taking every step possible to prevent such events. I've never understood two people deciding 'lets try to have a kid' and not being married. Fuck that! And if chicks were smart they'd make sure every precaution would be taken to avoid that slow march to the clinic. And for all the single moms out there who claimed that bullshit like 'oh the rubber bust' or 'he was going to pull out' are buggin' the fuck out. I don't want to touch half these shorty's because if it's that easy to get you pregnant then shiid no telling what else (i.e. STD's) are getting through to your fertile ass. Vegas is right, niggas don't change overnight; you knew what type of nigga you were dealing with from the jump. Hov said "you was who you was before you got here"
Hold on Vegas...
Men will portray themselves to be one way, and time you get knocked up, all of a sudden their attitude does a 180...I've seen it happen too many times. Don't get me wrong, there are women who become oblivious to men's bullshit, and for them I don't have any sympathy. But for the ones who were shown "love", emotions, happiness, etc. and believed his actions to be true, I feel for them b/c men will do that...they will play the role very well, until you throw salt in the situation with a baby.
"Women may fake orgasms, but men fake relationships."
ok .. B.C.U
Im not oblivious to the fact that men "Play the Role" ... but dudes switch it up when it comes to a relationship, they dont switch it up when it comes to wanting a baby. Hence why you said "throw salt in the situation with a baby." I dont mind being with you (right now), but i dont want you and a baby!!
Thats why i stated the 3 things a woman should know before they say im going to have a baby.
Have a baby with someone....
1) You Really Know
2) That can & will actually be around.
3) WANTS TO HAVE A BABY WITH YOU!!!!! (GENIUS)
Now a dude can fake a relationship, but i dont know anyone who faked wanting to be a daddy. I can get rid of you quick, but i cant get rid of a baby quick. Thats life changing!!
Fake Relationship / Orgasm Comment -- CLASSIC!!!
Ok, I understand that, but we all know things happen...either you don't wear a condom, or it breaks...the birth control pill isn't 100% (that's how I got here)...nothing is absolute (only celibacy), so there is a chance that you may have a baby if you're having sex.
If the woman does get pregnant, the two of you need to discuss it in a mature manner and handle it; not the dude acting brand new like he doesn't know what's going on.
Well, I think the problem comes from not knowing your partner...I think most of the people who experience these problem are people who had a baby with a person they've only known for a few months...
i agree with you..for the most part. you chose to have a child, accept the responsibility of the decision, including, but not limited to WHO you had the child with.
a leopard never changes its spots.
the man doesnt come with the baby.
next time you think your pussy can change a man, think again.
"for every beautiful woman, there is a man tired of fucking her."
Post a Comment