WHAT DO YOU DO??

Next Lifetime - Erykah Badu

She Said:

What am i supposed to do when i want you in my world? How can i want you for myself, when im already someone's Girl! I guess ill see you next lifetime ....... I know im a lot of woman but not enough to divide the pie!


So did anyone believe this when they heard it?? I know i sure didnt! You dont want someone for yourself, and talk about seeing the person in the next life b/c you know yall were meant to be together!! Bounce boulders bitch, if you going through all this Dilemma, aint no way that pie aint been "divided" already! WE DONT BELIEVE YOU ..... YOU NEED MORE PEOPLE!!!!

CHEATING IS ACCEPTABLE ....

WELL MAYBE NOT ...

But ladies (and fellas) if you were dealing with someone and you found out they were cheating, which would hurt less. The fact that they were cheating with a whole bunch of random chicks, or the fact that he was having an affair with another chick??

Some people said the best way to cheat and not get caught was to have a bunch of random chicks, some people said the best way is to have just one other chick. Me personally, i say its kinda touchy! If you meet a shorty and you try to turn a jump into a jewel and you find out she is still doing what she always did, i guess that would hurt more than finding out she was always with one other nigga. However, if her persona is clean cut and innocent and you find out she has been throwing the pussy all over the place like Bret Favre, i think that might bother me more. To each its own, but not for nothing, i think all chicks cheat, but that another topic.

We all know you wont like that your OTHER is cheating, i understand that, but which one is more acceptable, or as i said, hurts LESS!!!

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CHEAT???

I was talking to my homegirl the other day and she is confident that she knows when her man is cheating, and is sure she could call him out on it. I know one of her Ex's and she has never called him out before and he was a DDMF (Dirty Dick Motherfucka), but ill let her tell it.

Fortunate for her, she has a D.I.L.A.N (Dangerously In Love Ass Nigga)now, so i guess she feels like she knows when he does something b/c she feels she can read him!! Whateva Homie!!

Anyway, i know some dudes who get caught all the time, and i know some dudes who never seem to ever get caught .... now my question is this ....


Do you think you are more likely to get caught cheating if you are fhuckin a bunch of Random chicks or having ONE affair? I guess ladies could answer this question also, b/c everyone knows yall some cheating motherfhukas as well!

KEEP YOUR MAN SATISFIED OR ELSE THIS MIGHT HAPPEN TO YOU .....

Sex is about an experience with men, we see you and imagine what that experience would be like. So if you are unsatisfactory we will try to find someone else who will be satisfying. The way through a man's heart might be through his stomach, but the way to keep his interest is through his heads!! You have to entertain one, and stimulate the other one!

He will wife you because he loves you, but what he really wants is to love fucking you!

WHO KNOWS WHAT IT REALLY MEANS TO BE HURT - Volume Two

Now there are always 2 parts to every story ...


... This is Volume II of My Pain




We have established that the pain of losing someone may lead people to do drugs, some drink, some pray, some dive into other gratifications, anyway, something usually always changes dramatically. {Remember that Pain?}

Now, think about the person who did the hurting!! {something tells me that's burning} Well, that is Part II - Imagine how it feels to be the person who has done the hurting. In my opinion there are 3 different "Hurts": The deceased (R.I.P), The disappoints, and the Cheats. Ill leave the deceased and cheaters to later volumes, so that leaves me with the disappointments. Ironically, these people are usually hated less, but can leave more of a long lasting effect on your life. They usually make you not trust again, they can make you a skeptic, and maybe even little emotionless. Question is, you think they feel pain for what they have done? Better yet, do you care about the pain do you think they are going through??

Seeing as though I have never been "Heartbroken" its safe to assume that at the healthy age of 28, someone "MIGHT" say that i have broken their heart before!!! -- MAYBE

So as the public defender and Co-Founder of the "Disappointment Hurts Organization." I must say that we are deeply saddened by the fact that you were hurt. It was never our intention to disappoint anyone, but we contend that we were always put in a difficult and sometimes impossible position.

We too have had to change our lives, and have had to deal with pain of the demise of the relationships. After every freakin person that says they have been hurt, we have to try to be more clear in our position. It has come to the place where our men tend to come across as crass and maybe even a bit coldblooded and egotistical. Our ladies are referred to as sluts or controlling craazy bitches and even back stabbers!


We tell our members at the Organization to always be upfront and honest. If a young man falls for one of our ladies, but she has persisted in telling him that their relationship is casual, and he finds out she is messing with someone else, why should she be labeled as a slut and be responsible for the fact that he now treats women like shyt! If a young lady falls for a young entrepreneur (sometimes called a hustler) and he tells her is in not gonna be around, he always has to be in the streets, but she falls for a dude and now she doesn't see him, why is that his fault!

DO YOU THINK THE PERSON WHO HURT YOU WANTED TO HURT YOU? WAS IT MALICIOUS? OR WAS IT A CRIME OF OPPORTUNITY?


IF YOU DON'T THINK IT WAS MALICIOUS, WHY DO YOU THINK YOU WERE WITH SOMEONE WHO COULD SO SUCH THINGS TO YOU??


...... "NEVER IGNORE THE SIGNS"

STAY TUNED FOR VOLUME III