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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

GENDER WARS VOLUME ONE (WHO HAS MORE SEX?)

WHO HAS MORE SEX?
WOMEN....


OR MEN...


.... So (Gender Wars) are a group of on going conversations that i have had with a few of my (male and female)friends and ofcourse there is always a difference in opinion, lol.


So as i was talking w/ homeboy and business partner and we ran across a very very interesting topic. He seems to believe that women Fuck more than men.. hmmmm

Now, i know that women have more opportunities, but i had TWO reasons to believe that men actually have more sex:

1. I have always been around a certain caliber of men since i was a young man. I have been surrounded with, athletes, get money niggaz, and just cool niggaz that never had problem gettin box. I mean i had a Male High School friends that by senior year had already had sex with 60 / 70 chicks (yes thats craazy, but it is what it is..)

2. I have never really known many chicks that get it in as much as my dudes, but i know chicks who definitely do them. The majority of women i know dont have problems w/ having sex, they just "SEEM" to not do it as much as the niggaz i know...

NOW -- The thing my boy explained to me is that, i have lived and have been exposed to an atypical lifestyle and group of friends... There seems to be a lot of niggas who "stay home and play video games" and really dont get pussy like that... Thats baffling to me, and came as a shock, but when i put it together and looked around at my whole life, it kind of made a little bit of sense... I just never thought it was that hard, and when i actually thought about it I saw what he was seeing... Its not soo hard for (some)dudes, but it is down right easy for (a high majority of) women


SO DO WOMEN REALLY HAVE MORE SEX THAN MEN?? I KNOW YALL LADIES GET IT IN.. DONT EVEN TRY TO FRONT

So Please Chime in and give me your opinions on it.. I hope you women can give us some real insights..please no generic bullshyt.... Just keep it funky

18 Retort(s):

CXXVII said...

I think men have more sex, they usually have have more sex partners too...

Men will have sex with more than woman at a time, while women tend to sleep with one partner at a time (I did say tend to) there are exceptions to every rule...

But what I will say is, sometimes its hard to really gage how much sex women are having. For the fear of being called names (I guess) a lot of women lie and hide their sexual escapades...

Closet freaks!!!!

Lexi Chow PR & Company said...

I can only speak for myself. When I have a man, yeah we have alot of sex.

But on a whole, I think it is equal the gears have now shifted in this time and women are more open and free to having sex. Especially casual bisexual relationships...women are definitely getting their rocks off weather it be with a man or woman...

So its a tie!

brook lynne carter. said...

ok so..lol..of course im gonna have the answer to this, since my habitat would be strip.

men. hands down. iv seen so much in the club, these guys are ridiculous with the pussy. especially when its in an abundance. iv only been in the game for 2 years, but my closest friends have been in this industry for yeeaaars. and some of the most highest profile relationships in the industry that u can think of, run thru women like its no ones business. OMG there is even a particular athlete that i wish i could mention, was very much in trouble awhile back for accusations from a white girl (hint hint..came into the club and left with different girls, and these girls came back to work bragging about going back to the hotel with this guy who got in trouble for this very thing, publicly and has a very high profile relationship. and even after all that trouble he got into, he still cant walk away from pussy. he couldnt just get a dance, he had to take a couple gals 'home'.

its harder i think for men to say no, then it is for a woman.

anyway this is the type shit i see. daily. but women DO get it in too. but men, in my opinion, from what iv seen since moving to this region, are definately laying mass pipe.

Pana said...

I think men have more sex only because even though women have more "opportunity" 90 % of those guys you wouldn't even give the time of day to. I mean women do get harrassed everywhere like walking down the street etc...but those are dudes that know they have no business trying to even go there. In a perfect world women would have more sex than guys.

Vegas International said...

CCXVII -- I dont know if i was clear enough in my question. When i said Who has more sex, i was asking which sex has more partners. So you did answer my question .. but here is my follow up questio to you ... Men "tend to" have sex with one woman at a time also. Maybe not for as long as women "tend to" have sex with just one guy, but (single)women tend to rotate men about every 4-6 weeks. I dont think the avg. guy can say that. So by that definition, i would say women have more sex ...

TRUST ME! Im all too familiar with the closet freaks, my jaw dropped a few years back when i really found out about them, college taught me a lot!!!

Vegas International said...

Lexi ...
I meant to ask which sex has more partners.

I agree that women have more opportunity, and that guys try harder, but women go through their "im confused or curious stage" and i think if you even try to add the ever so popular bi sexual stage the women go through or live in, women definitely have more sex than men. Its not even close is you ask me. Yall turn down more dick or partners than men can even ask for.

Vegas International said...

brook ...

Hmmm, I agree that some men of a certain status go all the way in, but they are celebrities and i consider them outliers. They are not a realistic depiction of how men live as a whole. I agree men tend to say yes more than women say yes, but its not a fair comparison. Men dont get as many opportunities that women get.

Everyone one knows regular women that "do them" everyone knows guys that "do them" but there are tons of guys out there that DONT get pussy, if a woman out there doesnt get dick, she doesnt want it. Even big or unattracive chicks can get it, the only way a big or ugly nigga gets it is if he has money or somekinda power. Women are running away with this sex shyt, and people need to know it. lol

Vegas International said...

Pana ...

I think you are making my point.
I understand women turn down hella dick, but if yall see a guy you like it takes you no time to say he can get it or give it to him. Thats is sooooo not the case for men. Now, im not talking about big shot guys or even big shot ladies, we are takin out the celebs. Im talkin about Tammy and Phil. Tammy can and will go through her "do me" stage or stages. Guys more or less live that stage, but it doesnt mean that they are getting any. I know equal amount of get girl and get em boys, so to say guys try for it more is not true. I equate the guys mentality to be like the mentality of a chick who fhuks for status or bread. Im not judging, but please believe they are out there just like those guys chasing pussy, and their numbers are very simular.

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

I think women have more sex than men.

I think this is true because women are the "items" that men chase/want/desire, so in a way, sexual relations are in our control.

Women are better at playing it off as if we don't have more sex since we are mentally assured when it comes to sex. We're not the ones chasing it...men chase us, so we are confident in knowing when, where, and how we're going to get it...on the other hand, men have to do a lot more "plotting." Then when men do get it, their attitude/actions change...women, stay the same.

Peggy M. said...

Since a little bit of what I want to say is in everyone's responses, I'll try not to say too much. Some of this may be repetitive.

To answer your question -
Although women have way more favorable circumstances, I still say men have more partners. Why?

1 - More men fuck anything walking more than women do. Some of us choose our partners meticulously, (as do some men) however, men are more likely to be less specific about who they're "dicking down".

2 - Out of the males and females I happen to know and am close with - the men have had more partners. I might have a girlfriend or two here or there that has an outstanding amount of partners, but at the end of the day, the trophe goes to the guys I know.

The only point I agree with is during a females "do me, men ain't shit" moments we might have had more partners than an average man, solely because we have the ability to "do us" easier than guys do. And yeah you're right, there are tons of guys that don't get it, but the same goes for women too.

Vegas International said...

BCU ...

I agree with you. Men are the ones after it, women are the ones that get it. A guy can "think" he got sex, but the woman can allowed you to, so ... she actually got sex!!

Vegas International said...

Peggy...

You are making my point for me.
"More men fuck anything walking more than women do"

So basically any ugly looking thing of a woman a dude would fuck! but not anything of a man a woman would fuck. So, there are a lot more women out there gettin dick, than there are men gettin pussy.

2nd point ...
People know the guys having sex b/c they are either good looking or popular. You dont know which girls are having sex b/c they dont have t be either, they just have to be a woman! You definitely know the guys who are not having sex, and you can be sure that the ones who are, just might be frontin on how many. Niggas lie up ... Women Lie down (pun intended)

Peggy M. said...

Ok, I get what you're saying [I like how you used my own quote against me and made it fit your point, lol].

"So basically any ugly looking thing of a woman a dude would fuck! but not anything of a man a woman would fuck"

You and your play with words, smh... I had to flip that around to really get that part.

brook lynne carter. said...

for the first time, i have to outright disagree with you. men have more sex and sometimes even have more partners. i dont just know men of a certain "status"..like i said i have only been in this industry for 2 years, so im very familiar with the lifestyle of men, especially since most of my friends are guys. im a decent looking girl and i say no all the time, even with all the temptation around me, but men are different, their horomones are usually what they think with. guys are just wired differently. ok yes there are isolated incidents where certain guys will walk away-but its not common, cmon now, be serious, dont be bias-because u r a guy. most women turn down sex nowadays especially if there is no kickback, a lot of women expect something in return, and if you cant do it, she is not fucking. the girls that fuck just because, are usually fucking the same partner give or take a guy, the girls that have multiple partners are usually, NOT ALWAYS, getting something in return, unless she is busted.

we will agree to disagree, lol.

Vegas International said...

brooky baby ..... lol

Im not biased b/c im a guy, im not biased b/c im a guy. I know women like you know women, and i know men like you know men, but im just not ready to do agree to disagree just yet.

You say men cant or dont control themselves as well as women do, and I totally agree. But, we are on the hunt for mates, women are not. Women just accept who they want. As for the kickbacks, most of the time they are pressed if they already have one or two already taking care of something, they tend to find another one to take care of another thing.

brook lynne carter. said...

me and you should get a joint blog, lol!!

ok i just wanted to respond to your jeezy comment..i agree, the snippet i got does seem like he is not listning, BUT, thats my fault, if you listen to the interview from the start, monie was attacking him from the very begining, from being a dope boy, to being called the snow man, she wasnt being an objective journalist-which is really what you are supposed to be when interviewing, right? well she clearly doesnt like him, and usually people that are into self rightious hip hop cant relate to music that talks about moving keys and blow. by the time it got to the part you heard, he had enough. if u go on you tube, there is actual video footage of them in the studio having this interview. i dontknow where you can find the whole interview, i heard it on a mixtape like a year ago.

i am just a teeny bit bias..cause i like jeezy. AS AN ARTIST, not as just a person,thats another blog, lol.

**trucee writer** said...

hmmm, im late for this one but here is my input...

i think the point you are trying to make Vegas, that men hawk and stalk pussy, is actually the reason that they do have more partners. Women do not go out looking for dick (all the time lol) because we know who we went & when from the first time meeting someone.

I think that BECAUSE dudes ask, or hint to, almost every woman they know that they want to fuck (come on now, all dudes try at least once, even friends)...but yeah, because of that very reason, guys have more numbers. The odds are in their favor way more than females. The more people you approach about sex, the more chances you have to get a "yes" answer. Women may have sex more, with a couple of partners...but dudes have sex with more partners because to me, they're only interested in that one time to get inside a female...just, for lack of a better term...the experience.

Females may have sex more, as far as the number of times but men have sex more, as far as the number of partners.

Pana said...

I still think Men have more parnters. The reason I say this is because men tend to have more than one partner at a time. ( not saying women do not). I like the way you answer everyone directly.lol