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Friday, April 10, 2009

I DONT MASTURBATE ....


Soooooo --- i saw this on Twitter yesturday and had the bbm open mouth face like :O

So i hit her with the LOL, and was like you a daaaamn liar! You're joking right???

She was like .. NO NIGGA .. im for real!! I again had that BBM FACE :O

I have not heard a woman say something like that since maybe my high school years, So this got me thinking 2 things.

1. Is it true that all i talk to are freaky ass women? lol

2. Is masturbating like drugs and alcohol. If you didnt do it growing up, then its just not that serious??

YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE!

17 Retort(s):

Bombchell said...

(side eye)

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

*Blank Stare*

I'm not going to entertain that person's "truth." All I can say is, I don't know of anyone who either doesn't or hasn't done it.

Anonymous said...

1 - yes, you happen to have tons of uninhibited female friends.

2 - nope, i disagree. just cuz you ain't do it growing up, doesn't mean you can't start in your older years.

hearing that is a first. i've heard it from men before, but never women.

i always thought every female has been 'one' with their body at one point or another.

Vegas International said...

@ Bombchell ... thats what i said when she told me that. She isnt a "young" person either .. she is like 25. Thats pretty grown. When she told me she never did it EVER ... i think my mouth is still open listening to her say that. lol

But seriously, is it like drinking and drugs? i would think It had to be for her to really not even care.

Vegas International said...

@ BCU ...

Homie ... thats what i said, but i know her (as well as you know any female) and i really doubt she is lying. Thats not her style. She is dead serious. I mean i know people who dont like to do it b/c they want the real thing, and i just think she took that to the next level. She doesnt want it unless it comes attached with a body.

Vegas International said...

@ Anonymous ... i need an explanation then.

Jennifer said...

I find it hard to believe that in this day and age, a woman still isn't open to pleasing herself. I myself prefer the real thing, but let's face it, he is not always available, so it's business as usual. The show must go on, if you know what I mean.

With that being said, a lot of women still are VERY uncomfortable with touching themselves because they were raised to think that kind of thing is dirty. WTF? Your lady parts are an extension of YOU, so does that mean you're dirty too? There are women who have never even gotten a closer look at their own vagina and that to me is amazing.

Sexual liberation is a beautiful thing. Your friend doesn't know what she's missing!

Vegas International said...

:O -- ok i get it .. bbm face.

but why is no one answering my quesitons, obviously my 1st question is answered cuz all you touching yaself ass chicks i basically know .. but atleast answer my 2nd question. Geeeeesh!!!! lol

If you dont do it ... do you think you just not missing it??

Vegas International said...

@ Jen ...

YOu never know what your missing if you never had it! Some people love doing certain drugs that i would never touch, and they say its aaaamaaaaazing .. but i dont care ... its not my thing, and i get high. I just dont get "that" high.

maybe thats my anology. She gets off .. but just not off that way... hmmmmm

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

Well, maybe it's me, but I find it hard to know how someone can't masterbate who wishes to have a good sexual experience. How are you suppose to know what really feels right to you? How can someone else really please you if you can't please yourself? I'm just saying.

Anonymous said...

Maturbating is a beautiful thing. I have to be honest I never did it growing up. I befriended someone who gave me all the favs about this wonderful thing called "The Rabbit". I must admit at first it sat in my nightstand for a few weeks. One night after a few drinks, I got up the nerve to give it a test drive. OMG! The heavens opened up.

Don't get it twisted. I got a man and he can satisfy me even better than my solo act but when he's away and my body is calling for him I gotta answer! :-)

I can't answer for question #1 but for #2 I would have to say no. It was something that was looked down upon being a female growing up in church and in the islands. It took me being in college and being surrounded by people who were not afraid of talking about sex and masturbation. I'm glad I opened up because I can say I've never been more sexually satified in my life. I'm comfortable with my body and that allows me to have multiple orgasims. Yay for me :-)

miss-b. said...

I know of someone who claims not to and to never to have done it before. to me, that's crazy. I feel like if you don't know how to please yourself then you can't possibly expect a man to. maybe it's because I'm am and have always been a firm believer in masturbation that I do not understand this theory but whatever..

Anonymous said...

anonymous #1 giving you "an explanation" -

yeah -if you've never done it -you're not missing anything. i'm sure if she did it, she'd probably like it, considering she likes to get off. you don't miss something you don't know. just like a kid with an absent father. if she/he doesn't know her dad, what is she/he missing?

nothing.

Vegas International said...

anonymous #1

See .. i kind of agree with that, everyone here seems to think that its sooo craazy, and when i first heard it i thought the same. But, I realized, why cant it be just like everything else in life. I still look at people craazy who say they dont drink, "THEY STILL MAKE YALL" but i came to realize, if you dont start many things at a younger age, its just not that serious at an older age. Its just shockin b/c i have not heard that from a female in YEARS!!!

Good Daddy Analogy

Anonymous said...

i know that was a great one -it helped me get over some issues i had when i first had my the kid.

thanks v.

;)

AnyaPosh said...

Hmm...interesting. I wonder what else she doesn't do... Does she shower every day? I bet she'll say "ofcourse!"

I'm there with Bombchell. (double side eye)

Liza said...

That doesn't sound odd to me. I don't masturbate b/c it does nothing for me. I tried it a couple of times, but I couldn't make myself cum so I just stopped and found another activity to occupy my time. Now that I'm married there is no need to even think about masturbation. My sex drive is as high as my husbands and we are both freaks.